Generations differ, but certain traditions should hold
Each generation has its own ways and, as someone mostly raised by a mature grandmother before having kids myself, I can list lots of traditions I’ve seen change over four generations.
However, some traditions should be so ingrained, so natural, so right, that parents and teachers alike support their continuation. Please and thank you. You’re welcome. Our conduct during the Star Spangled Banner.
When sung or played, we are reminded to stand and face the flag. This we do in offering respect and gratitude for our freedoms. We thank those who fought and those currently serving in defense of our freedom.
What happened to teaching and guiding our youths not only to stand and face the flag, but to put their right hands over their hearts—similar to our Pledge of Allegiance?
I know it was the norm in the early 70’s. I don’t know who first instructed me that “this is what you do,” but it has never been any other way in my world.
Nowadays, in glancing around various school gyms prior to basketball games, it is painfully obvious most persons over 40 have their hand over their heart, while most under 40 don’t.
Of course everyone knows to take their hat off, so I won’t even mention it…
Have today’s students been instructed to “stand and do what you want with your hands”? And is it respectful?
I would rather err on the side of caution and use this simple act to show much deserved respect. I don’t know why or when this new “tradition” began, but here’s what we know.
From the Smithsonian website…
“On September 14, 1814, U.S. soldiers at Baltimore’s Fort McHenry raised a huge American flag to celebrate a crucial victory over British forces during the War of 1812. The sight of those ‘broad stripes and bright stars’ inspired Francis Scott Key to write the song that eventually became the United States national anthem.”
The United States Code for Flag Laws and Regulations outlines the laws and regulations as to the proper conduct with the flag. Title 36, Chapter 1, Section 301b states in part: National anthem; Star-Spangled Banner, conduct during playing:
1. When the flag is displayed… (A) all present except those in uniform should stand at attention facing the flag with the right hand over their heart; (B) men not in uniform should remove their headdress with their right hand and hold the headdress at the left shoulder, the hand being over the heart…
This notice is precipitated by: The Code is designed “for the use of such civilian groups or organizations as may not be required to conform with regulations promulgated by one or more executive departments” of the federal government.
Thus, the Flag Code does not prescribe any penalties for noncompliance nor does it include enforcement provisions; rather the Code functions simply as a guide to be voluntarily followed by civilians and civilian groups.”
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I recognize the code is written as a “guide,” and following it is voluntary. I would suggest however, showing respect to a teacher, administrator or any adult via the use of Mr., Mrs. or Ms., is voluntary as well. And yet we promote their use.
I hope we know how we “should” respond during our National Anthem, The Star Spangled Banner.
It might time for parents and teachers to turn back the clock and encourage a former tradition…
Just a thought.
